This Isn't A Love Story This Is A Story About Love
I am a part of AACF UCR. Attend Sandals Church in Riverside and Higher Vision Church in Santa Clarita.
Welcome to my outreach and prayer blog :)
This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. 1 John 4:10
And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people. Pray also for me, that whenever I speak, words may be given me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel. Ephesians 6:18-19
This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. 1 John 3:16
I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. Ecclesiastes 3:12
If love was a storybook. We would meet on the very first page.
-God
Link: http://swimmertkesh.tumblr.com/post/15068042386/if-love-was-a-storybook-we-would-meet-on-the-very
To all my brothers and sisters in Christ. To me you are like my family and many of you have been so kind with your messages and your posts show me how dedicated you all are to serving God. I get new followers each day and I always try to be consistent in quality posts every day. I pray for all of you each night and it definitely has been a blessing being able to serve you all and talk to many of you. If you were all here I would give each one of you a hug. Hope this brightens up your day :)
Link: http://swimmertkesh.tumblr.com/post/8518967723/my-followers-my-family
God loves you so much......
That every morning when you wake up God would leave you not only a text with encouraging passages from His Word and messages, but also call you so you could hear His voice saying “You are special to me, I will always love you first and you are perfect just the way you are”. Then visit you every morning just so you can run into His open arms and God will say, “I will be with you…….Always and Forever”. And God would do this every morning for us because that is how much He loves us.
Link: http://swimmertkesh.tumblr.com/post/8699545945/god-loves-you-so-much
"God doesn't have a Blackberry or iPhone, but He is my Favorite Contact. He doesn't have Facebook, but He is my Best Friend. He doesn't have Tumblr, but I follow Him. He doesn't have Internet, but I am connected to Him 24/7."
Let us all tear down the walls that keep God out of the picture so we can live lives dedicated to His will for us. By doing so it will allow us to not focus on things like beauty, fame, possessions, money, and the things that the world views as “good” but allow us to say “yes” to God when it comes to devoting our lives to serving others, missions, and living everyday by God’s Word. As God’s children we are called to be transformed by the spirit and see that there is more to this life than the things we see around us. Things in this life are only temporary, but a relationship with God will last forever. If there is someone you don’t know that needs prayer or needs God in their lives, do not be afraid to reach out to them, but remove all the barriers keeping you from doing so and remember to put others before yourself and God first and foremost.
Link: http://swimmertkesh.tumblr.com/post/8587223732/tear-down-the-walls
God would like nothing more...
than for you to run to Him and say, “I can never thank you enough for all you have done for me and all the things that give myself and so many Christians hope. It is because of what You have done for me that I will devote my whole life to putting You first, glorifying, and seeking You out with all my heart. I may not be perfect and I do stumble, but I will always do my best to please You and NEVER stop loving and putting my trust in You. Lastly, I will be a light and encouragement for others and ALWAYS keep You and my brothers and sisters in Christ in my prayers and my heart.
Link: http://swimmertkesh.tumblr.com/post/9020461097/god-would-like-nothing-more
Whether you know me or not, I pray that you will find something encouraging in my posts or a push in the right direction.
Friendships, Relationships, and God’s Plan
To me, the most beautiful relationships are the ones between a brother and sister in Christ who are really close friends. That they have each others backs in all things and are able to be comfortable talking about anything. They both trust each other and are there for each other in times of need. They support each other and encourage each other with God’s word. They do not care what other people say or gossip about them being together because all that matters is God’s plan for them. Also, as long as they are both pushing each other towards Christ and serving Him to their very best that is enough. It is so nice to see two great friends laying down their lives for each other in light of a friendship. To me that is love. It is important that you love others as a brother and sister in Christ first and foremost prior to getting involved in relationships. If God calls you and a close friend into a relationship with each other, both of you should not be worried at all because it is in God’s plan. You have built a special bond of trust between each other that can’t be broken no matter what the outcome is whether it is in a friendship or relationship. God blesses you with a relationship with someone not only because you deserve each other, but also because you have both shown great love and commitment to those around you.
Link: http://swimmertkesh.tumblr.com/post/14910205094/friendships-relationships-and-gods-plan
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Christ Centered Friendships and Relationships
A friendship/relationship that lasts is such a beautiful thing. However, it is not the easiest thing to find or keep up. To start off, friendships are really fragile and tend to break easily. There are so many things that go into a friendship, but one that is God centered is definitely something beautiful. What does this entail? First, accountability, being there for each other to encourage, pray, and keep each other on the right path. Next, using your gifts that God has uniquely blessed you with to help and support those around you. Now, a true friend is someone who is with you through all circumstances and will continue to love on you no matter how many struggles or obstacles come your way. The strength of a friendship revolves around transparency and truth, that you are real with yourself, your friends, and most importantly God. Strong Christian friendships start with a great foundation. Brothers, you must to have close brothers in Christ; both older (who can be an example and disciple you) and younger (who you can be that example for and have to disciple as well). I know it’s hard for guys to be transparent, but it is definitely worth it and it does help to strengthen the bond between each other. Most importantly, you will be able to relate to them because you probably have gone through similar situations. To really encourage each other to be the man of God and leader that He wants you to be. Encourage each other to be disciplined and edifying to others. For sisters, you need to have close sisters in Christ who can also keep you accountable and disciple; surround yourselves with both younger and older sisters. Teach each other about biblical womanhood and to be an example for others through action and love. Build yourselves up in the faith and guard each other’s hearts. Show people around you the love that Christ has shown you. You all need friends in your life that will rally around you to praise you in accomplishments and also support you in temptation and sin. Lastly obedience to God; God knows what we are going through and what is best for us so center your friendships on seeking Him together. Now, Relationships; let me start by saying if you are single or called by God to be single props to you. Just keep those friendships you have and maintain that strong relationship with the Lord. You are never alone because you always have Him in your life. Being single is an amazing time for personal growth and to strengthen your relationships with others. If God does call you to a relationship, then He must have something great in store for you so take complete joy in that as well. For all those who feel called to a relationship or looking, know that Christian relationships require a ton of patience. You must ask yourself: Can I see myself marrying this person? Is it in God’s plan for them and yourself to begin a relationship? Are you ready spiritually for a relationship and are you going to be able to guard each other’s hearts? Are both of you deserving of each other? There are so many questions you must ask yourself and you have to know what you are getting yourself into and what it entails. You may be risking your friendship with the other person as well. A relationship is not a one way street. There must be direction and a clear vision on both sides. A relationship is a gift, not something to take advantage of. The focus is centered on God and glorifying Him through your relationship. That it is much more than you, but it is also about Jesus and others as well. A long lasting relationship begins with being led by God’s Word, truly knowing Him, and having that strong relationship with Him first and foremost. That you will always love each other as a brother or sister in Christ no matter what happens. A strong relationship starts from the heart. Are both of your hearts in the right place? Is it God speaking to you or is it just your own wants and desires? Only through faithful prayer and consistent scripture reading can you truly understand God’s plan and will for you. Always keep that passion and desire for God through all things. Don’t lose hope brothers and sisters; God has amazing things in store for you beyond anything you can even imagine. Just remain patient and trust in Him. Strong relationships and friendships are abounding in love; that the love of Christ is magnified through your relationships with others. Can others see Jesus in your friendships and relationships? If not, you need to dive into the Word and examine where your heart is. Gossip, lust, hate, and worldly love are the center of weak relationships with others, but love, patience, generosity, and Jesus are what create strong connections with others. Love is a sacrifice; in which you lay down your lives for those around you. It may sound difficult and time consuming, but believe me when I say that it is truly worth it. If this post touches your heart, thank God because I am only an ambassador for Him and He is the one that is speaking to you. This is His message and encouragement to you. Thank you so much for reading this.
Link: http://swimmertkesh.tumblr.com/post/18338098841/christ-centered-friendships-relationships
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Read Ephesians 5 for instructions on Christian households and how to treat your husbands and wives :)
One aspect I want my relationship to be centered around…
Prayer. Why? because it shows so much commitment and patience. We all want someone in our life who is committed to a relationship. Be sure to look at how much time they spend in prayer, building their relationship with God and strengthening their heart. A man or woman who is dedicated to God through prayer is special and it shows in their lives because praying without ceasing is not an easy task. Keep them close, because it is not easy to find people in this world who absolutely love to pray. It takes a lot of faith and love for the Lord. It builds trust not only between you and that special person, but also strengthens your own relationship with God. Part of being an encouraging husband, wife, girlfriend or boyfriend is having a great prayer life. Praying daily for each other and starting/ending both of your days off with the Lord. Encouraging each other to pray and also showing your support though prayer. Remember that prayer is not only for yourselves/your relationship, but when you pray together, pray also for others as well. Prayer is also important for direction, which is essential for a relationship. It helps to center your relationship around Him and allows both of you to answer His calling for you. I hope the love of prayer is something you all look for in terms of a relationship. I promise you it will make such a difference.
Link:http://swimmertkesh.tumblr.com/post/16718894118/one-aspect-i-want-my-relationship-to-be-centered
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Popular culture tells us to be available and we will find someone in our lives.
I want to be available to God and let Him bring someone into my life.
God knows us best and knows what we need so wait patiently on Him.
Link: http://swimmertkesh.tumblr.com/post/9995284139/popular-culture-tells-us-to-be-available-and-we-will
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Relationships: A Heart For God
A person’s worth is not measured by their looks, their possessions, or their popularity, but by their heart. A person’s heart is what really makes them beautiful. The love and passion they have for serving both God and others is what is most important. Does their heart overflow with His love and can you see God growing and using them. They should be giving their all for God and doing everything for His glory and honor. A relationship should be centered on the fact that you are so in love with their heart for God and would like nothing more than to push each other toward Christ. Be so in love with God and trust in His plan so that you will be able to discern what person is deserving of your heart.
Link: http://swimmertkesh.tumblr.com/post/14192648177/relationships-a-heart-for-god
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Find someone who can say that they love God more than they love you. If someone is able to say that, you can be sure to know that he will love you more than any other guy/girl without God can love you. A person that puts God first in their life will be what God wants them to be. Which mean they’ll treat you right and with respect. They’ll be the most caring person you will have ever been with. A person that loves God won’t hurt you intentionally, or cheat on you because they know that it’s wrong. They will strive to love you the way God loves us. Unconditionally.”
“You deserve a girl that waits for the Lord and loves Him with all of your heart.
Please don’t settle. Don’t pick the prettiest one. Please pick the one who’s in love with the Lord.
If she loves God more than you, she’ll love you like He does and always point you in His direction.
Wait for your Proverbs 31 woman, she’s out there waiting for you, I promise.
Don’t let your heart be content with the first girl who comes along, even if she does like the Lord, ask His opinion on it. Don’t pursue her if she’s not pursuing Him. Please just know that you’re a wonderful hardworking man set out for the Lord and you deserve the most amazing woman that God can provide for you. Let Him bring her to you and once you find her, cling to her and never let go. I’ve seen so many posts on here about what a woman deserves and I agree wholeheartedly, but we also all need to realize what men deserve, as well.”
“The whole point of Christian marriage is for two vastly flawed people to grow in the Lord together while they are taught how to love by a gracious God.” - Holding Hands, Holding Hearts; Richard D. Phillips & Sharon L. Phillips
I want to be in a relationship with someone who is so in love with God that…
When I look at them, I see Christ in their eyes and God’s work in their actions
When I hear them, I hear God speaking through their words
When I walk with them, I can feel God walking right beside us
When I comfort them, I can also feel God’s presence surrounding and embracing us
When I hold their hand, I am holding Christ’s hand as well
When I trust them, I am trusting in God’s plan for them and us
When I love them, I can feel God’s love showering down upon us
When I commit to them, I know it will be Christ centered and one of a kind
Hope this post is a blessing.
Link: http://swimmertkesh.tumblr.com/post/9052230473/i-want-to-be-in-a-relationship-with-someone-who-is-so
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When we say we pray for a Christ centered relationship
Yes we all pray for this and desire for this, but do we know what this entails. What do you think of when you hear “Christ centered relationship”. I personally think it is about intimacy. Not only between you and the other person, but also with Christ. That your relationship revolves around being submissive to Him and to be led by the Word. This is something that God gifts to us and it amazes me how much people abuse being in a relationship. A Christ centered relationship is special because the main focus is not on yourselves, but it is on God and glorifying Him through your relationship. That you are to be an example for others and to bless/love others just as God has blessed you both. It is about direction; you both must be spiritually ready and know what being in a relationship is all about before getting involved in one. It is about serving; both of you glorifying God more together than you would be able to do on your own. It is about sacrifice; giving up your time, money, energy, and yourself for not only the other person, but also to God. Lastly it is about love; that you first and foremost fall in love with each other’s love for the Lord. That you would be encouraging, caring, and loving to one another. It’s more than something you just say. It is something you must also live out.
-swimmertkesh
